Category — By Men

An interesting Spankophile blog. The extract is from an entry on obedience.

Obedience is in doing what a girl truly rather wouldn’t – bending over and putting her elbows on the bed when he has the belt in his hand; facing the wall in the hateful corner but a little glad because she can’t bear to meet his baleful gaze; keeping still as possible and making herself as small as possible when he puts that nasty thermometer where it’s got no business going.

Such are the forms of obedience. Whether or not the form has substance depends on a variety of factors – the individuals, the situation, the ethos, the morals, whether a birch rod and a peeled ginger root happen to be involved.

Obedience and compliance are two sides of the same coin, and it is up to each Top and Bottom whether it lands head or tail, and I’ll leave you to make your own pun on tail. The key to being a good Top is to persevere, to be persistent and consistent, and to have patience.

Devlin O’Neill’s Weblog

Originally posted 2009-10-24 16:23:55.

He does a good job of summing things up:

Alex Birch
I am a retired I.T. consultant who writes spanking stories and runs a lively spanking web forum called FLAMING CHEEKS. If you click on the link above you will then be able to access, and then hopefully, join ‘FLAMING CHEEKS’ On this blog I have decided to showcase the material of others so none of the stories here are mine. My own work is available on the ASSTR web site to which there are links within the blog. I am delighted to say that I have met some of my best and dearest friends as a result of my spanking interests so all this spanking activity is a labour of love for me!!.

A Taste of the Birch

Originally posted 2008-02-23 18:59:49.

Master Enigma’s summary:

Thoughts about slavery/submission. “Gorean men do not surrender their birthright as males, their rightful dominance, their appropriate mastery. They do not choose to be dictated to by females.”

Master Enigma’s Thoughts

Originally posted 2006-05-22 05:13:41.

Irch writes of his amazing online relationship with k:

Have you ever had (I hope you all have had) that experience of pristine sublimity in lovemaking when you swear time is standing still, the earth has stopped turning, the stars are aswim in the sky? That kind of time-stoppage is something I never thought could be achieved in a long-distance online relationship. But turns out you just need to be with the right woman.

The reason this has all come up is that I haven’t had any time online with my delicious k in a number of days now. She’s just moved into a new place and is working on getting her internet hooked up. I was out of town for the whole weekend and pretty preoccupied during that time. We’ve kept in touch with a few phone messages and texts, and I miss her. I crave the intensity of the times when we are online together. But this time, unlike any previous times that we’ve been apart like this, I am completely assured and unanxious, confident. I feel our bond, our connection, as strong and steady as ever.

She belongs to me, always. I know her heart and mind are as full of me as mine are of her. My ownership of her, and the difference I make in her life, don’t diminish or alter over time. If a couple thousand miles don’t change things, why should a few days?

Dominant Seventh

Originally posted 2006-05-27 08:20:36.

Erotica and meditations by Writer Dom. Here’s a short sample:

And you have embraced the slut role. You aren’t a “slut” and I’m not into sharing. But “My” slut and that excites you. I want to see you whimper and pout after you kiss/lick my cock and you ask to suck it and I tell you to do it again. But also, you could be halfway done with either the kiss or the lick and I could grab a handful of your hair and tell you to suck it now. That would make you instantly wetter. Or you could finish your kiss/lick and be ready to suck and I could tell you no, to mount and ride my cock and suck your juices off after I cum. So what I’ve done is expanded the kiss/lick thing. Not even intending to. I’m just thinking outloud.

Writer Dom’s Domain

Originally posted 2008-01-09 08:44:38.

Sir shares the kind of surprises that can arise in the world of kink:

Now, as for O/our ” Newbie ” couple, this couple are two lovely people that a couple of months ago wouldn’t have even looked at each other I believe especially in the lifestyle. He was into the scene but as a shy submissive looking for a strong FemDom, but really never found one. On the most part sat on the sidelines and watched and hoped. ( sorry I have to stop for a min while I canned littleone to finish her blog ) Now as life would have it, after months of no luck finding that FemDom He runs into this nice vanilla single parent of the same school that his kids belong to and wham they click, but only in the vanilla way and that was great. Somehow I really don’t or can’t remember she seem to get more interested in the lifestyle, to the point that he had to change from submissive to Dommant. Well I must tell you that My head was turning circles but with the biggest grin for Him, butt at the same time tears, see the problem is He is too much of a teddy bear and she was getting into the scene by leaps and bounds. I know that feeling that He was going though ” How can I hit her, I was brought up knot to hit a lady? ” and she was demanding ( My word there ) more and harder treatment. So littleone and I tried to assist each one of them to either move faster or slower depending on who W/we were talking to. Long story short W/we invited them over to an evening of friendly lifestyle discussion and seeing the dungeon and that night was a hit. Well, I got an email from Him a few days ago asking nicely if they could use the dungeon sometime. Now, I must say that I love it when ” Newbies ” ask to use or learn things especially if it involves the dungeon, since I am a bit of a voyeur and teacher. After seeing what I did see on Friday night** I don’t think I will be using the term ” Newbie ” with this couple ever again, oh yes they need more work on techniques butt they are well on their way to a great BDSM life and I can hardly wait until the next time they are over to the dungeon….

Sir’s Place

Originally posted 2006-05-26 07:15:37.

M. Yu in his own words:

The power of the erotic experience drives many of the most important aspects of our lives and relationships. From the creative drive of art and civilization, to the most intimate and personal relations, to a deep and profound merging with the spiritual forces of our existence, the erotic experience continues to permeate, fascinate and motivate us.

The Jade Gate

Originally posted 2007-11-27 20:53:37.