Category — By Men

You may have seen the famous 128 slave rules that are well known among the Maledom, femsub community. Here’s the beginning of a discussion they inspired many years ago:

He has managed to remove the consensual part as well, with his
propagandist, brainwashing. Once you have started such a brainwashing
tactic, it is impossible for anyone to combine it with their own
thoughts. Many newcomers to our lifestyle, enter into it with
enthusiasm, and a blind desire to find a label for what they have felt
deep within them for many years and never understood. Searching to
educate themselves, looking for guidelines to follow, “For there must
be a right way to do this, there is in everything else we do in this
world”. If they only knew that the only right way, is what is right
for you, and not what jkay insist is the “Basic” set of rules.

Unfortunately, this places them in a dangerous position. Especially
when a self proclaimed expert present them with material that is so
far off base, unsafe, insane, and the personal kink of one want a be
prophet.

128 Basic slave Rules – Not so basic – Not for slaves – Not Rules

Originally posted 2006-12-25 12:00:24.

Master ABD talks about stereotypes some people in the BDSM community have:

The thing I like so much about this defintinion is that first of all it defines the responsabiliuties of a homemaker as tending to ones home. This means the job actually has to be done, or its not being a homemaker.

Basically what I am saying is if a person sits at home all day watching talkshows, soaps, and sitting on their fat lazy ass, this is not being a homemaker. Likewise if a person only does limited chores, this is not homemaking.

A homemaker must tend to all the chores required in tending to ones home. This can include but is not limited to things such as houskeeping, tending to children, cooking meals, cleaning up after meals, mowing lawn, shovelling snow, tending to gargens and/or household plants, etc.

The second thing, and in my mind most important thing about this defintion is that it excludes any defined role. This means no marriage need take place, and it means no sexual roles are defined.

Basically what I am saying is a dominant/master can just as easily be a homemaker as a submissive/slave. Being a homemaker doesn’t make either the dominant/master or the submissive/slave lazy and it doesn’t mean anyone is looking for a free ride.

Often times I hear of people who think if a dominant/master isn’t being the breadwinner, the one outside the home bringing in the money and paying the bills, then he isn’t being a good dominant/master and is only looking for a free ride. Well in the words of every woman who has ever been a homemaker or housewife, tending to the home IS a full time job.

This means as long as the person who is being a homemaker is actually doing their job, and actually tending to the home, they are not just taking advanctage of someone and not just looking for a free ride. Why is this so important for me to spell out to people?

Because in my life I have learned I love to tend to houses. Perhaps its because my mother was a perfectionist and a workaholic but I am good at tending to housework. I know what a white glove inspection is all about.

I know about the cobwebs in the corner most overlook, I know about vents and radiators that need dusting, I know about washing walls and ceilings, I know about washing curtains, and I know what it means to tend to a home.

I also know that after a hard days work, the submissive/slave who does work outside the home is like any other person, they want to come home and find a nice hot cooked meal sitting waiting.

Now many of you are likely thinking that if I am doing things like cooking and cleaning its actually me being the servant to a submissive, and this couldn’t be further from the truth. This is a job and should be looked at it as such.

If I were working in a kitchen cooking at a resteraunt you wouldn’t say that feeding another person makes me a servant to that person. In the same respect cooking and cleaning for not only ones sub/slave, but also for ones self also doesn’t make one a servant, submissive, or slave.

Now the question is are there a lot of freeloaders out there using the term homemaker to find a free ride? The answer is yes logically there are. However most of the ones looking for a free ride, have never actually been a homemaker and don’t know all the things it entails.

This comes to the advantage of anyone looking to get into a relationship with them. Its very simple to find out if such a person is just looking for a free ride or if they are sincere. The answer is question them. Ask them what exactly they consider tending to the home.

In their answers lies the truth. Have they mentioned cooking, windows, laundry, vacuuming, sweeping, mopping, dusting, dishes, etc? Have they mentioned toilet cleaning, tub and sink cleaning (lets not forget those unsightly bathtub rings), tile cleaning, etc?

The more things they can list off as chores, the more likely they no what they are talking about. The key is looking for the jobs everyone forgets. If they can name the jobs most people forget, chances are they do in fact have experience in the area.

Master ABD

Originally posted 2006-06-15 11:11:53.

M. Yu in his own words:

The power of the erotic experience drives many of the most important aspects of our lives and relationships. From the creative drive of art and civilization, to the most intimate and personal relations, to a deep and profound merging with the spiritual forces of our existence, the erotic experience continues to permeate, fascinate and motivate us.

The Jade Gate

Originally posted 2007-11-27 20:53:37.

Master Enigma’s summary:

Thoughts about slavery/submission. “Gorean men do not surrender their birthright as males, their rightful dominance, their appropriate mastery. They do not choose to be dictated to by females.”

Master Enigma’s Thoughts

Originally posted 2006-05-22 05:13:41.

Writer Dom offers his readers of vignettes and stories of erotic mastery as this excerpt demonstrates:

“I know you do because you are cock sucking little slut who is here to please Me. Serve Me. Give Me anything I want. So, you are on the pill now?”

“Yes Sir, I am.”

“So you want My cum in all three of your slutty holes?”

“More than you know, Sir.”

You cry out as the crop lands squarely on your butt cheek. Then again on the other. You bite your lip as the spanks goes on for more than a minute. Your ass getting red and getting hot.

“You like the crop don’t you slut?”

“Yes, Sir.”

“I have toys we haven’t even tried yet. Perhaps we will start to go through them tomorrow. One new toy a day. Find out which one you dislike the most. Then I’ll know which one to use when you break a promise to Me.”

“Disappointing You is the harshest punishment, Sir. I want to be perfect.”

You give a little scream as I remove all the clothes pins quickly. Again when I knock the two off your nipples.

Writer Dom’s Domain

Originally posted 2009-01-11 07:37:08.

Sir shares the kind of surprises that can arise in the world of kink:

Now, as for O/our ” Newbie ” couple, this couple are two lovely people that a couple of months ago wouldn’t have even looked at each other I believe especially in the lifestyle. He was into the scene but as a shy submissive looking for a strong FemDom, but really never found one. On the most part sat on the sidelines and watched and hoped. ( sorry I have to stop for a min while I canned littleone to finish her blog ) Now as life would have it, after months of no luck finding that FemDom He runs into this nice vanilla single parent of the same school that his kids belong to and wham they click, but only in the vanilla way and that was great. Somehow I really don’t or can’t remember she seem to get more interested in the lifestyle, to the point that he had to change from submissive to Dommant. Well I must tell you that My head was turning circles but with the biggest grin for Him, butt at the same time tears, see the problem is He is too much of a teddy bear and she was getting into the scene by leaps and bounds. I know that feeling that He was going though ” How can I hit her, I was brought up knot to hit a lady? ” and she was demanding ( My word there ) more and harder treatment. So littleone and I tried to assist each one of them to either move faster or slower depending on who W/we were talking to. Long story short W/we invited them over to an evening of friendly lifestyle discussion and seeing the dungeon and that night was a hit. Well, I got an email from Him a few days ago asking nicely if they could use the dungeon sometime. Now, I must say that I love it when ” Newbies ” ask to use or learn things especially if it involves the dungeon, since I am a bit of a voyeur and teacher. After seeing what I did see on Friday night** I don’t think I will be using the term ” Newbie ” with this couple ever again, oh yes they need more work on techniques butt they are well on their way to a great BDSM life and I can hardly wait until the next time they are over to the dungeon….

Sir’s Place

Originally posted 2006-05-26 07:15:37.

Been some time since I listed a Gor themed blog. While I don’t much care for Gor I don’t let that stop me from appreciating men like Russ who do a decent job of explaing themselves:

In my belief, A submissive would say to me “You can do X, Y and Z to me. I have a great fear of B, last time it was done to me I had to be taken to hospital, but if you want to do it, of course you may.”

Why? Because in my choice of lifestyle, relationships are based on trust more than they are Dominance/submission or even Mastery/slavery. In that situation above, the submissive has given me all the information I need to make the correct choice. If she didn’t trust me enough to make that choice, she wouldn’t be there in a relationship with me to begin with.

Russ Roach: Gorean + Philosophy + Logic + Life

Originally posted 2007-06-30 14:14:00.