Category — By Women

A remarkably good BDSM blog. In this excerpt slave writes about a controversial view of BDSM that is difficult for many people to even begin to think about clearly:

I don’t want and can’t do a vanilla relationship. I need that distance, the formality and the respect that comes with bdsm. I need the Master/Dom/Male father figure. It’s good for me and I need to know my place…even when I am domming I can still have that ’sub’ part of me in check but it’s still there.

Master said that getting too close makes it hard and he was spot on. So we have to go back and I need to create distance. Be more respectful, expect more guidance and to take it. Be told to do more and do so, not resist it.

A Life of Two Lives…

Funny how different this is between M/f and F/m couples. Many submissive men go on and on about how good chastity is for them. Women tend to be either more realistic or honest:

This is one part of BDSM I HATE.

Indeed:

Orgasms are good for people. I think people should have as many orgasms as they can. I don’t think it’s healthy to be denied orgasm. I really don’t know if I can handle this. I had sex with Davey and that wasn’t enough, luckily when I asked MasterDoc permission to masturbate I was granted it. The magic wand helped but I still feel like utter shit about this, like I’m not strong enough to be a good sub. Having him deliberately make me feel this horrible just makes me feel like I’ve been really, really bad. This whole thing makes me feel horrible.

Diary of a Kinky Librarian

Blogs about men in enforced chastity regimens are common. But not those about women undergoing orgasm denial.

From the about page:

This site is dedicated to the art of female orgasm denial. There are many sites on the web about orgasm denial for male subs, but information about female orgasm denial is hard to find. This website should fill the gap and provide webteases and other teasing techniques for female subs and their masters and mistresses.

Female Orgasm Denial

Constance makes a point that can never be repeated too often:

People who don’t know better sometimes assume that the woman in a male-led relationship is somehow a victim. Instead, we are on the receiving end of the love, guidance and assistance of really wonderful men who are motivated by their desire to fulfill their responsibilities, while nurturing and protecting the women they love. Those of us who are in Domestic Discipline relationships are also on the receiving end of spankings, but that’s a choice we have made for ourselves. (If it isn’t consensual, it’s not Domestic Discipline.)

My Dabble in the Middle End

A female slave explains the whys and wherefores of her blog:

“Slave musings” was created under Masters directions. Master created O/our blog as a means for me to share O/our experiences with people of like interests as well as for people who were curious about the world of Master/slave; Dominance/submission; Sadism/masochism.

Master also created “Slave musings” as an avenue for me to express my feelings with regards to submission and slavery without hesitation, editing or judgement.

What do i expect readers to learn from my entries?

As readers journey through O/our experiences; the challenges and triumps; i would hope that each person receives a sense of awareness and understanding of the diverse and pleasureable world of alternative intimacy. i know that throughout my twenties i felt a sense of shame for my desires and i wish to bring a sense of freedom and acceptance with all that i share so others do not feel isolated or alone with hers/his own cravings.

Slave musings