Category — By Women

Depression in the dominant can damage a relationship partly built around D/s. Am’s partner had been going through a period of depression and the diminishment of kink in their life. But …

Encouragingly though, whilst it may have taken back seat, it hasn’t vanished completely. Earlier this evening Dave gave me a long, hard session with the tawse – something he needed to do as much as I needed him to. The tawse is perfect for that kind ofspanking – it hurts a lot, but because there isn’t much weight behind it I can take an awful lot more of it than anything else – useful when Dave feels the need to really work over my bum (as he did tonight). The session finished with Dave alternately fucking me hard in the mouth or hard between my tits, finally cumming deep in my throat.

We both needed it, and I think we both feel a lot better for it. And it’s an encouraging sign that his desires in that respect haven’t gone completely.

Burblings

Originally posted 2006-05-19 04:59:56.

An example of the romantic prose of Charley Nicole Montrose:

“Close your eyes my bitch.”

I did as I was told. I immediately closed my eyes. I only stood there for a second before sinking to my knees to fully enter the room. I didn’t go too far, before I was stopped by a tug of my locks.

“Sit up and wait here.”

Then you walked away. I heard the door open and realized that you were speaking to someone. I hadn’t even heard the bellman at the door. I guess my heart was beating too fast. I wondered if he could see me as he entered the bedroom. I didn’t care, I just wondered if he could seem me.

As you entered the room, I heard you say, “Mmmm, you are my ideal. Good girl, good girl.”

The words caused me to shiver throughout my body. I heard you approach me and felt your body heat beside me. I was still in the position where you left me. I felt you as you caressed my cheek. Then I felt a thick furry blindfold cover my eyes. Next I became aware of my everyday collar being removed and my formal collar being placed around my neck. As the buckle was fastened, I felt so proud of myself for remembering that I was to put my formal servant collar in my pocketbook. Once the leash was attached I was lead to another room. The most delicious smells greeted me as I crawled across the threshold to that room. …

The diva dome

Originally posted 2006-09-28 05:29:29.

I’ve been tardy in reading the sane woman who calls herself Wordslut. An exceptional blog.

Yes, doms have limits, too. They might not fill out detailed multipage questionnaires about them, but they have them just the same.

There are things a dom will not do because he believes they‘re wrong or could cause permanent injury. Things he’s not interested in doing because they simply don’t turn him on. Things he can’t do because he doesn’t know the proper technique. Even — and think about this one for a minute — things he might like to do but choose to avoid because he wants continued submission.

Yes. The dominant, no matter how selfish his motivations, does have to think about what the submissive can and will accept — not about what she wants, necessarily, but at minimum about what she can and will tolerate. It’s not that she has all the power, and in fact, over time in a relationship, she will likely submit to more and more and protest less and less. But she can, in fact, reach a limit.

Even if she is defined as a slave, if her master values the services she provides, he can’t go beyond what she’s able to tolerate.

Those limits mean that sub helps to set the meaning of “anything” by choosing her dominant. …

hopelessly bad

Originally posted 2006-10-31 13:45:14.

The women featured in the Fetishes episode of The Secret Lives of Women has a blog:

A slave’s relationship with her Master should be full of support, empowerment and enjoyment of each other. And I am very happy to say that mine is!

The relationship should be honest, open, loving, respectful and giving. I have felt a power exchange of sorts that continues to grow between us as well although i may be wrong. The more I feel I am able to surrender to Master in training, the more power I give to him – he takes from me… and the more I feel almost like I am being drawn into his power. Then, as we kind of blend together, I feel almost as if Master is returning that power 3 fold back to me. The pain of extreme brutal/physical training at Master’s hand releases the endorphins I so crave to feel, putting me in a kind of blissful state with him which contains a sense of power for me, maybe Master as well? Being able to take the pain for Master for his pleasure, to endure it as long as I can, to be brought past my limits by my Master then fills me with even more power as i give my surrender.

The sexual aspect of our relationship is another thing. It is amazing: sensual, loving, brutal and sadistic all in one. And can go for hours and hours at a time, lol.

And then there is the love we share for each other, which is so intense it scares us both. We have also captivated those around us unknowingly simply by the sometimes long gazing and knowing looks we exchange between us. We only recently realized that others can see the obvious love we share and the intensity of it as well. My favorite thing is to wake in Master’s arms to him showering my face and eyes with sweet little kisses!

I do not see that a Master, showing his love and devotion for his slave, is a sign of weakness at all!!!

We spend lots of casual times together outside of training as well. Master and I attend demos on the lifestyle together, coffee’s, munches and other socials and events. We have even been in stage shows for public BDSM events as well. But, we can also be found meeting to simply have drinks or coffee, talk or hole-up to watch movies on TV. Master will also go out with my husband for a round of pool, etc.

Alene’s blog

Originally posted 2006-08-19 06:21:22.

Ms Sns writes about cuttings and complications:

There are two things I would change. One being the placement. I like it where it is, but it’s hard to cover in the summer. It would have been fine in winter. I took a sun dress to wear on a trip, not thinking of it showing and had more than a few panicky moments wondering how I was going to hide it or if someone asked, how do you explain that to the average person? The marks looked pretty deliberate to me. In the end, I put a little powder on it to dull it and no one said a word.

Secondly, I might have made it a design. That would have been even harder to explain though as I don’t look like I’d do anything remotely like this. He asked at the time but I declined. I wasn’t sure I was going to let him do much of anything, let alone the Celtic knot he suggested. Next time, I would likely allow that in a different place or season.

Update on the Cuttings

Originally posted 2007-08-14 15:39:55.

Red Velvet’s profile:

Yes i really AM a Black woman. i am a masochistic submissive who will perpetually find herself in service to a sadistic Dom. He makes all of this make sense. Because of the experiences i’ve had, i’m quite positive that when and if i marry it will be to someone that is my Dom/Daddy/Master whatever you want to call it. That may not be anytime soon but 24/7 is what i’m looking for in the future.

Inside the Red Velvet Rope

Originally posted 2006-05-22 05:09:12.

There are the least expected blogs:

This site is about me, a 30 year old bi-polar submissive. It is my corner of the web, where I can post thoughts and general other things in my blog, or I can show off stitching projects and artwork. It’s my haven. What I write here, or display here is my business, seriously you don’t like it, there’s a little X in the top corner of your screen, use it, no skin off my nose.

Whilst I do not post porn, and I do not refer to sex on a daily basis, I do use D/s terms pretty much daily. I am a submissive, if this offends you then you won’t like this blog. I refer to my Partner as Master, if this offends you then again you won’t like my blog. Some may come here to check my cross stitching projects. If you would like to see that, but do not wish to read such terms as Master or slave, then feel free to check out the Cross Stitching link to the right which is purely pictures and current progress.

The Stitching Submissive

Originally posted 2006-06-02 05:53:38.