Category — Mélange

A mishap with an email tool caused me to lose a couple of messages pointing me to the writers’ blogs. If you’ve sent me a note and I haven’t responded that is likely why.

My original BDSM personal website has over twelve hundred posts. It is getting a bit unwieldy,

And because I was in a female dominant relationship during most of the time I was writing my focus was often F/m. My sexuality is open and fluid. I could be happy with a transvestite, transsexual, genetic female or a gay or bisexual male master. I suspect I’ll be writing more about my same-sex desires on this site.

I am single and looking. I live in Durham, NC. So if you know any single BDSM tops in central North Carolina you might point them to the site (I’ve included a profile page).

I invite you to look at BDSM Romance..

I’m glad to see Peter Tuper has his own domain:

I was lamenting how hard it was to study the works of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, at least for me, as Venus in Furs is almost his only work readily available in English. I argued that this was because Sacher-Masoch was the victim of a very effective literary character assassination at the unwitting hand of Richard von Krafft-Ebing, who coined the term “masochism”. As a result, Sacher-Masoch, the next big thing in Middle European literature, publisher, journalist, historian, progressive, is known to later generations only as a lunatic and a pervert. His jilted wife came along and added “abusive schmuck” to the list. A literary figure was lost, almost entirely without biographies, and it’s only some quirk of fate that Venus in Furs was not consigned to the same untranslated, out of print limbo as his other works.

The History of BDSM

I get people asking me to list sites that aren’t blogs.

I understand the desire for publicity but this is a specialized website that will always remain close to its theme.

I do publish a sexuality directory that lists all manner of noncommercial kink and fetish sites from blogs to erotic stories to services. Please feel free to submit your site for a free listing:

The Polyfetishist Directory

An unusual blog by an unusual couple:

I opened my mouth as far as I could, he placed the wet bar into it, and let it start to spin. I closed my mouth down around the now spinning bar of dove soap (what else?). The sensation took a few moments to register but quickly found me moving my mouth to make the most of it. The sensation and quirky feel soon gave way to a wonderful feeling of the lather starting to form inside my mouth without me having to do a thing. The fact that the soap was touching opposite parts of my mouth at the same time and giving them a thick coating of the soap was in itself was amazing. It became something I wanted more of, MUCH more. He after a few minutes of it spinning started to gently pull it in and out farther back into my mouth coating the farthest reaches of my tongue and roof clear back to the top edge of my throat.

OMG……what a amazing feeling. I felt myself getting turned on by what Merlin was doing to me and I started breathing heavier and faster, wanting even more of this feeling. …

Mouth Soaping for Pleasure