Category — Mélange

In an old discussion of BDSM and hypnosis Peter Masters said:

In a BDSM context things become a little more interesting because
surrendering and being controlled can be part of what they expect and
seek from their partner. Hypnosis can simply be an extension of that,
and the effects (and consequent feelings of being controlled) can be
welcomed at many levels (not just consiously, I mean) and it can all
even become self-reinforcing.

Imagine, for example, a submissive who gets off on feeling helpless
against the influence of their dominant. Imagine that said dominant
gives the submissive a post-hypnotic suggestion to feel sexually aroused
*at any time* when given a trigger phrase by their dominant. Wouldn’t
that be a turn on, just *knowing* that that trigger exists?

By the way, it’s always a good idea to ensure when doing such things
that you don’t make it so the person *remains* aroused all day, for
example. It may lead to negative results (such as getting reprimanded
because they’re not able to concentrate on their work).

Using hypnotism to faciliate BDSM

Originally posted 2006-12-05 13:41:34.

Something new from the House of Tanos:

The Ownership Flag is derived from the Ownership Icons, and is intended to represent everyone who is seeking or pursuing a relationship based on ownership: that is, 24/7 D/s or M/s, where ultimate authority over the submissive or slave is always in the hands of the owner.

As with the icons, the shield represents the owner, as head of the household, and the collar represents an owned submissive or slave. The nine black and white stripes are a reference to the black and white striped uniforms of convicts, which in turn represented the bars of a cage or jail.

Ownership Flag

Originally posted 2006-10-29 08:03:24.

My original BDSM personal website has over twelve hundred posts. It is getting a bit unwieldy,

And because I was in a female dominant relationship during most of the time I was writing my focus was often F/m. My sexuality is open and fluid. I could be happy with a transvestite, transsexual, genetic female or a gay or bisexual male master. I suspect I’ll be writing more about my same-sex desires on this site.

I am single and looking. I live in Durham, NC. So if you know any single BDSM tops in central North Carolina you might point them to the site (I’ve included a profile page).

I invite you to look at BDSM Romance..

Originally posted 2009-01-15 20:00:30.

Few people use usenet anymore even though it is a part of the internet older than the web.

Let me introduce you to the newsgroup (which you may think of as a Goggle Group) known as alt.torture.

Witness titpainslut’s confession:

Alligator clips, hemostats and wire brushes have been my “tool lovers ” of choice for a number of years. I have an old canvas bank bag, the kind used for coins probably in the 1940′s and 50′s and i keep my clips there. I can hoist the sack( it almost reminds me of a canvas covered breast) and slap my hand into the bottom of it just to hear the metallic “clinking” inside. its almost enough to make me wet.

The clips are the smallest kind. you can pinch up just a tiny bit of flesh, on the surface close to the nerve endings.

What I’m wondering is. How Many has anybody ever fastened to a girl’s tits???. Yes, I know cup sizes vary and there’s more surface area to a pendulous breast. And i can put more on an areola because there are less nerves there ( lucky for breast feeding moms)

I’m a C cup bordering on D and I’ve gotten thirty to a breast. Once they are stinging the visual effect is just Awesome!! I love to play my fingers over them. kind of like playing a harp. If I’m turned on by it enough, and if often am, i can gather up a bunch and pluck them off. Remember they’re lightly attached so they don’t tear a lot of skin.

I’d like to build up the courage to re apply them and rip them off again, an again. Maybe I’m just a twisted pervert-girl but I really get off on this. It gets me whimpering and moaning and i can cum with an abandon I don’t get any other way. ‘Course the wire brushes are a whole other venue….

alt.torture

Originally posted 2006-06-26 17:51:25.

If I haven’t cited a particular BDSM blog it may be that I haven’t seen it yet or didn’t find an entry to quote. I’m not that picky but it should be about some aspect of D/s or S&M. And a good one may have been buried in the archives.

If you know of a blog I should mention please give me the URL via the contact form. If there is an entry that you really liked – even if it is your own – please give me the link to that.

Thanks.

Originally posted 2006-06-24 20:01:20.

One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master’s control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of her submission, the deeper it becomes….and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas You might want to try… And no matter what rules You decide to make Your own, please….be consistent. If You are unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules You make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master/Mistress who ignores her transgressions and does not exert Their Dominance.

The list: 101 ideas to make Your slave feel Owned (i.e. loved)

Originally posted 2006-11-08 16:19:58.

An unusual blog by an unusual couple:

I opened my mouth as far as I could, he placed the wet bar into it, and let it start to spin. I closed my mouth down around the now spinning bar of dove soap (what else?). The sensation took a few moments to register but quickly found me moving my mouth to make the most of it. The sensation and quirky feel soon gave way to a wonderful feeling of the lather starting to form inside my mouth without me having to do a thing. The fact that the soap was touching opposite parts of my mouth at the same time and giving them a thick coating of the soap was in itself was amazing. It became something I wanted more of, MUCH more. He after a few minutes of it spinning started to gently pull it in and out farther back into my mouth coating the farthest reaches of my tongue and roof clear back to the top edge of my throat.

OMG……what a amazing feeling. I felt myself getting turned on by what Merlin was doing to me and I started breathing heavier and faster, wanting even more of this feeling. …

Mouth Soaping for Pleasure

Originally posted 2007-12-03 07:43:55.