Sir and Slut

Slut writes about the importance of enforced chastity in her D/s relationship:

Orgasm denial is important to me for a few reasons. The first and foremost reason is that it is something Sir requires of me. It’s important to me to keep any commitment that I make to Sir. The rule that I am not allowed to cum without permission is especially important to me because it was the first one Sir gave to me. It holds a special meaning for me because even before we agreed to be seriously dating he had given me the rule that was standard for him to give in the beginning of a long term D/s relationship. That meant a lot to me then as it still does now.

My orgasm denial is the foundation on which everything else has been built. If I were to purposefully break that rule that would be an indication to me that I am unable to submit to Sir in the way that he requires. Being in denial is a persistent reminder of who maintains control in our relationship. It’s also a persistent reminder that I am his and that pleasure is his to give or withhold as he wishes. I really can’t imagine, nor would I want it to be any other way. I like that this is something I’ve only ever given to Sir. That it’s part of me that no one else has had.

Sir and Slut

Originally posted 2009-01-07 11:43:03.